Research-backed insights on nurturing the relationships that matter most.
Gottman's research reveals that thriving couples invest just six hours a week in small, consistent rituals of connection. It's not grand gestures that keep love alive -- it's the small things, done often. Here's what the research says and how to put it into practice.
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Read moreStruggling to reconnect after baby? Here are 5 specific actions that take less than 10 minutes each and actually bring you closer -- backed by research.
Read moreA single question on the most ordinary night of the week reminded one couple that small things make a big difference in a relationship. A story about coming back.
Read moreMost couples questions are useless. These 30 are organized into 5 categories backed by Gottman's Love Maps research and designed to deepen real connection.
Read moreA single number predicts whether your relationship will last. Gottman's research on emotional bids is the most actionable relationship science ever published.
Read moreThe proximity paradox: the people we love most are often the ones we invest in least. Research shows why this happens and what small, consistent actions can reverse it.
Read moreWhat 40 years of studying 3,000 couples taught me about building technology for relationships. The surprising insights, the hard tradeoffs, and why an app can never replace a real conversation.
Read moreYou took the quiz. Now what? Knowing your love language is step one -- but practicing it daily is what actually changes your relationship. 5 specific actions for each language.
Read more67% of couples experience a significant satisfaction drop after their first baby. It's not a failure -- it's predictable. Here's the data and 5 things you can do about it.
Read moreGottman's Four Horsemen -- criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling -- predict divorce with over 90% accuracy. Here's what they look like and the specific antidote for each.
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